忍辱，期权系统，致富外包（3-2-1）
每周成长3-2-1最新研究
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Cliff Fang
了解我的朋友们都知道，通过证券期权打造系统管道收入，我们踩过各种各样的坑。越多的交流我发现，有一些坑几乎是所有期权被动系统交易者都会碰到的。那能不能有这样一个东西，把期权被动收入系统里最核心的实践重点、最关键的步骤，动态呈现出来？让新晋的交易者进入快车道，快速获得8成~10成的功力？
所以好消息：我把我们持续迭代、逐渐成型稳定的期权被动收入系统录制成了精简的视频内容（不用再一遍遍重复分析同一个问题了）
坏消息：我只发在了外网
[https://youtu.be/3GnXJo0AECg](https://youtu.be/3GnXJo0AECg)
3-2-1星期四快乐！
量子成长最新研究，本周的三点思考、两处金句和一个问题：
3 我的思考
1.
修行忍辱怎么理解？遇到态度很差、负能量喜爱无差别攻击的人，佛陀会怎么做、怎么想、怎么看他？
“忍辱不是吞下委屈，而是看破无明，以智慧止息仇恨，以慈悲化解对立。”不是被动隐忍或软弱退让，而是一种深刻的内在智慧和力量。
包括三层境界：
1. 对他人恶行的忍（他人对你恶语、羞辱、伤害）2. 对外部境遇的忍（苦难、逆境、不公平）
2. 对真理认知的忍（对空性的接受，对无常的容忍）
【1】《法句经》故事：佛陀遇辱不怒
有人对佛陀出言侮辱，佛陀平静地说：
“若有人送礼于他人，他人不受，则礼还归于送者。如是，汝辱我而我不受，此辱还归于汝。”
•佛陀明白，对方的攻击源于无明、烦恼、痛苦。
•他不认同这些语言，也不将其带入心中。
•以慈悲回应，以智慧观察因果，而不是情绪反击。
【2】佛陀如何看待攻击者？
佛陀会这样看他们：
•“这是一个因无明而痛苦的人。”
•他不是敌人，而是“还在轮回苦海中迷失的众生”。
•与其仇恨，不如生起慈悲心，愿他早日离苦得乐。
【3】我们如何学佛陀实践“忍辱”？
1. 不动怒，是慈悲的开始
怒不是勇敢，怒是痛苦的反射。对方越凶，越暴露其内在的痛苦。
2. 观“无我”——攻击不是针对“我”
“我”本无实质，对方骂的是他心中投射出来的影像，并非真实之我。
3. 生起悲悯心，而非防卫心
对方“盲目攻击”，是他内心的痛、苦、无明爆发，你不必接招。
4. 回到当下，不延伸情绪
每一次忍辱，是心性的修行。你不是懦弱，你是在修行佛陀的智慧。
2.
财富是一个过程，而不是结果。
财富的第一性原理不在于金钱，而在于价值创造。每个人都有独一无二的天赋（不公平优势，下面有挖掘教程），因此未来大同社会、极乐世界到来的关键，就是人人专注于自己的最大天赋，以最大天赋创造的价值互相交换。
每个人都沉浸在自己的心流状态中。
3.
致富之旅能不能外包给司机？
财富公式是一个整体，而不是其中的一部分。
过程造就了亿万富翁，结果只是过程的副产品。
寻求“财富司机”是为过程寻求替代。过程不能外包，因为过程孕育了智慧、个人成长、力量和结果。
我们生活在一个想把一切都外包出去的社会，无论是做家务事还是带孩子。外包可能在清洁厕所时有用，但它绝不可能用来打理财富。
当有人满足了你的欲望而你并没有付出努力时，你的过程就会被阻滞。在一个人的成长过程中，如果有人为你做好了一切，你就不会收获到智慧和个人成长。旅途是你的而不是别人的。
2 他人宝典
1.
上帝不白创造一人，每个人都一定有特定的不平等优势，但是要如何发现自己身上的不公平优势？
答案：MILES 框架
Money（金钱优势）
Intelligence and insight（智力优势）
Location and luck（位置优势）
Education and expertise（教育优势）
Status（地位优势）
我们可以从这几个要素里发现自己的不公平优势并加以运用。但是无论是优势还是劣势都可能是双刃剑，这时候我们就需要扬长避短，即可发挥个人最大杠杆，找到人生使命。
——《不公平优势》阿什·阿里
2.
投资心理学：在早年做短线时曾有频繁操作、情绪化问题。但随着经验累积，他开始明确：
1. 必须设置盈利提取规则（如月/季/年结算盈余转入储蓄或再投资）；
2. 资产结构分层（将盈利逐步转为保守型资产或长期复利标的）；
3. 止盈止损一样重要（止盈是为复利腾出安全空间）；
4. “目标不是一夜暴富，而是十年复利翻十倍”。
——小手川隆
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Cliff Fang
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Happy 3-2-1 Thursday!
Latest Quantum Growth research – this week’s 3 insights, 2 quotes, and 1 question:
3 My Reflections
1.
How to understand the Buddhist practice of forbearance?
What would the Buddha do, think, and see when facing someone extremely negative, rude, or indiscriminately hostile?
“Forbearance is not swallowing grievances, but seeing through ignorance, stopping hatred with wisdom, and resolving conflict with compassion.” It’s not passive tolerance or weakness, but a profound inner wisdom and strength.
It includes three levels:
1. Forbearance of others’ wrongdoing (verbal abuse, humiliation, harm)
2. Forbearance of external situations (suffering, adversity, injustice)
3. Forbearance in understanding truth (accepting emptiness, enduring impermanence)
[1] Dhammapada Story: The Buddha remains unshaken by insult
Someone insulted the Buddha. He calmly said:
“If someone gives a gift but the recipient does not accept it, the gift returns to the giver. Likewise, you insult me, but I do not accept — the insult returns to you.”
• The Buddha understood that the attack came from ignorance, affliction, and pain.
• He did not internalize the words or agree with them.
• He responded with compassion and observed with wisdom, rather than reacting emotionally.
[2] How does the Buddha view aggressors?
The Buddha would see them as:
• “A suffering person lost in ignorance.”
• Not an enemy, but a sentient being still trapped in the sea of samsara.
• Rather than hatred, he would generate compassion and wish for their liberation from suffering.
[3] How can we practice forbearance like the Buddha?
1. Not reacting with anger is the beginning of compassion
Anger is not courage — it’s a reflection of pain. The more aggressive someone is, the more inner suffering they reveal.
2. Observe non-self — the attack is not aimed at “you”
The “self” is ultimately empty. What’s attacked is merely a projection in the attacker’s mind, not the real you.
3. Generate compassion, not defense
Their “blind attack” is an eruption of pain, ignorance, and delusion. You don’t need to accept the invitation.
4. Return to the present — don’t extend the emotion
Every moment of forbearance is a practice of inner discipline. You’re not weak — you’re cultivating the Buddha’s wisdom.
2.
Wealth is a process, not an outcome.
The first principle of wealth is not money, but value creation. Everyone has a unique talent (an unfair advantage — see framework below). The key to a future egalitarian society or blissful world lies in everyone focusing on their greatest gift, exchanging the value created from it.
Everyone becomes immersed in their own flow state.
3.
Can the journey to wealth be outsourced to a “driver”?
Wealth is a formula — not a fragment.
The process makes the billionaire; the result is just a by-product.
Looking for a “wealth driver” is seeking a shortcut.
But the process cannot be outsourced — it is where wisdom, growth, power, and the outcome are born.
We live in a world that wants to outsource everything — from chores to parenting. While outsourcing works for cleaning toilets, it never works for managing wealth.
When someone satisfies your desire without your own effort, your process is blocked.
If someone handles everything for you during your growth, you gain no wisdom or growth.
The journey is yours — not theirs.
2 Others’ Wisdom
1.
God does not create anyone without purpose — everyone has a specific unfair advantage. But how do you find yours?
Answer: The MILES Framework
• Money (financial advantage)
• Intelligence and Insight
• Location and Luck
• Education and Expertise
• Status
We can identify and use our unfair advantages from these elements. But every strength can be a double-edged sword, so we must play to our strengths and avoid our weaknesses to find our personal leverage and life mission.
— Ash Ali, “The Unfair Advantage”
2.
Investment psychology: In his early years of short-term trading, he struggled with emotional swings and overtrading. But with experience, he gained clarity:
1. Always set profit-taking rules (monthly/quarterly/yearly transfer of profits to savings or reinvestment);
2. Build layered asset structures (gradually convert gains into conservative or long-term compounding assets);
3. Stop-loss and profit-taking are equally important (profit-taking frees space for compounding);
4. “The goal is not to get rich overnight, but to 10x over ten years.”
— Takakawa Ryuu
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